Try to get feedback before you visit a certain forum. Maybe you find some people who where already members and they got infected. Yahoo Answers is a great place to get feedback. People will quickly tell you if something is not worth looking at.



Another great place to find sex instructional videos is your local library. Many libraries put these in a restricted section, or may possibly place them in a hard to locate area. Also, not every library will carry these types of videos as they may think that they are smut or "dirty". This is not true! They are instructing you on something that is a natural human desire and activity. You should not feel ashamed or confused about something that is only natural. If it is only natural, then there is no problem in learning how to do it correctly.